女人心疼男人的十种最佳方式 [转载]

男人说女人是用水做的，从骨子里带着温柔，懂得心疼人。女人说心疼人也要讲竟方式：

　　1、当你爱上一个男子，千万别去想自己是不是应该矜持一点。爱他就告诉他，有时候男人也很爱虚荣，你的表白会让他的自信达到顶点。

　　2、当你已经不爱他了，那么也用最直接的方式告诉他。别去考虑他会不会脆弱，男人的自尊远比伤痛重要。

　　3、当你们已经相爱，那么就要对他信任，有什么想法就告诉他，不管他支持不支持。任何一个男子都希望他的女人依靠他。

　　4、在他的朋友面前，要给他十足的地位。面子对男子来说比什么都重要，不要介意在人前当个小女人，要知道小女人都是男人宠出来的。

　　5、他在打游戏的时候，不论你有多急的事情，也不要直接去关他的电脑。最好是搂着他，在他耳边轻轻的细语。因为男人对游戏的执迷胜过你看一部精彩的肥皂剧。

　　6、男人每个月也有那几天，跟女人差不多，心情无故低落。这个时候不要问他怎么了，只要陪在他身边。做好你自己。

　　7、他和朋友出去喝酒、打牌，你不要问他为什么不带你一块前往。男人都愿意做风筝，只要线还在你手里，那么就放他去飞吧。

　　8、男人都很懒很笨，尽管他爱你，但是不想费尽心丝讨好你，你所能做的就是在适当的时候给他个明示。男人有时候需要女人给他强有力的当头一棒。

　　9、男人不管他外表有多强大，但是骨子里都还是一个孩子。他在任性的时候不要对他大吼大叫，这对他不起做用。最有效的办法是陪他一起疯。等他平静后轻轻的告诉他你很爱他。

　　10、男人都是不肯认错的，在他知道错的时候给他一个台阶下。他会知恩图报的。

　　体谅一个男人，那就是把他当成你的爱人、情人、哥哥、朋友、父亲、孩子。爱他，不要给他负担，给他自由，给自己自由。做女人要知道什么时候该进什么时候该退。什么时候该挡在他的前面;什么时候该躲在他身后。把他当成你自己一样去爱护，成全了他的幸福，他才会成全你的幸福。

Extract from: http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_491d66800102dsba.html

恭喜你

在我们还没懂事以来，

就常听到这一句金玉良言，

“一寸光阴一寸金，寸金难买寸光阴”

在我们懂事以来，

我们就知道时间是宝贵的。

但又有多少人真正的思考过这一个道理呢？

又有多少人会珍惜呢？

我们常听到，

时间不够用。

每个人都有24个小时。

穷的人有，富的人也一样。

到差别是在那里呢？

说时间不够，

倒不如说不懂得规划时间。

想想一下，

到底是。。。

时间在用你？

还是你在用时间？

想想吧～

Achieve

It has been a long way since beginning of this journey

and I can tell you that

it is not easy

Nothing can be easy

Thats the reason I am here.

It's all started with a simple thought

A thought that I could bring the people

to work together as a team

to strive and achieve somethings that we are desired for

I am aware that problems will arise

and I could only tell myself that

"this is a process"

A process to learn, to grow, and to change

It's almost done

It's almost full

The mindset of giving up shouldn't be pop up at this crucial moment

I shall not be the first to quit if I intended to start

At last,

Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough.

无忧无虑的小孩

小孩，是世界上最幸福的人。

每天早上起来，一定会有早餐摆在前面，

吃完早餐后，就无忧无虑的过自己的世界，

拿出自己喜欢玩的玩具，

拿出自己心爱的娃娃，

不用可以去找人作伴，

因为一定会有人主动跟那天真，可爱，无邪的小孩一块儿玩。

也许真的，小孩是最幸福的，是最无忧无虑的，从不愁吃，不愁住，

不幸福吗？

其实，在羡慕的当时，何曾想想，

其实自己曾经也是那个无忧无虑，从不愁吃，不愁住的小孩。

只是时间一天一天的过，

渐渐的一年一年的成长，

尝试的东越来越多，

挑战逐渐的增加，

才会朔造今天的你。

其实我们很幸福，

比起好多人，

我们真的很幸福。

也许今天遇到多么艰难的挑战，

这只是上帝给你的一个考验，

每当你要得到好的东西钱，

上帝一定会给你很多挑战，

他并不是不爱你，

只是看你能不能有这个资格得到那么好的东西。

你要知道，

想要得到越好的生活，

想要成就一生的同时，

就要接受上帝的种种艰难考验，

越好的东西，越难得到，

这是肯定的。

如果那么容易就让你得到好的东西，

那世界上不是所有人都能轻易得到了吗？

那还算什么好东西呢？

容易 － 艰难

两者当中

你又会选者那一个呢？

跑吧！孩子。

人生就像一场马拉松赛跑，

有的人是为了金牌而跑，

有些人是为了家人而跑，

有些人是为了朋友而跑，

有些人是为了公司而跑，

有些人是为了锻炼而跑，

有些人不知为什么要跑，

有些人是为了自己而跑。

如果你有机会参加，你是为了什么而跑？

在一场马拉松比赛前，

往往很多人都会做好所有准备，

把握机会，

争取自己所要的目标。

在一场马拉松比赛中，

虽然有了目标，

但往往在路途中还是会碰到挑战，

在那么长的路途中，

怎么会没有挑战呢？

有些人会有很多烦恼，

不只会面对什么挑战，

一直想，

如果有这些挑战，

何时才会到达终点？

与其去烦几时达到，

不如就继续奔跑，

跌倒了，就爬起来。

在哪里跌倒了，

就在哪里爬起来。

跑吧！孩子。

Make a difference

Have been thinking a lot today,

and all begins with the question of

"What's your biggest weakness?"

Well, honestly I was stunt with the question and couldn't respond immediately after that.

It doesn't mean that I do not have any weaknesses,

perhaps, I shall said that I have too many weakness if you were to ask me to list

However if you asked me about my major and biggest weakness…

I can't rank it.

or in fact, this is one of my weakness

the weakness of couldn't identify a problem well.

"Everyone has its own strengths and weaknesses.

What we should try to do is to bring out our strengths in order to hide our weaknesses. Too many days are wasted comparing ourselves to others and wishing to be something we aren't. It is only when you accept everything you are and aren't that you will truly succeed."

That's a very powerful quote that I found from the net.

If you can't even accept who you are, and how could you expect people to accept you in return?

No matter what's my final decision, at least I know if I were have to accept that challenge, I know it for sure that I will do my best and make a difference. or else. I won't take it for the sake of taking the challenge.

And this takes a lot more than commitment…

好的开始，是成功的一半

1st week of uni was awesome! (:

I attended all the lectures as usual, and Stay awake + Concentrate for all the lectures!

Tomorrow will be the 2nd week and hopefully I can keep myself concentrate for week 2.

I shall work hard this sem.

Yes! (:

This shall be my 1st step of Photography journey.

After few days of random shots.

I realized somethings…

It may be the type of lens that affect the quality of the photos,

However,

It still depend on your skills.

is about the feel…

The feel that makes the photo speaks with thousands words.

I am still learning…

It's not an easy journey...

Hi! Monash!

Time Check: Tuesday, 10am

My first day of class in Year 2 Sem 2 !

Same Lecture

Different Theater

Same Fees

Different Faces

Learning the same things

But aiming to get a higher outcome

The first try out

The first lesson.

A good start.

Thanks (:

种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆

“种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆”

情况就是这样，

想得到好的结果，就得必须付出好的代价。

简单来说，

想要建筑一栋独立式，

就必需先要有好的材料，

再来好的员工，

最后每天勤力的往目标迈进，

只要有播种，

就能如愿以偿。

阳光，水是其次。

想要得到苹果树，

就必需要有播下苹果的种子。

想要吃榴莲，

就一定要有榴莲的种子。

如果不去播种，

就肯定不会得到任何东西。

说得到容易，做的倒是难。

曾看过有些人好像都没播种，

但是却能得到美味的果实？

其实他们也有播种。

也许比较小的果实，

但是后来的手段你可能都没看到，

也许得到充分的阳光，

也许得到足够的水，

也许有着营养丰富的肥料，

只是没在你面前播撒罢了。

没得到想吃的果实，

不能埋怨，

只能说

情况就是这样。

嫉妒，羡慕，伤心，难过

克服吧

下次加油吧

情况就是这样。

The worst plan

Do you ever have that kind of feeling before?

I tried my best as usual

This is the worst event I ever planned

Hopefully things will turn better after all

Appreciated for your attendance

Either is a force or a will

I do not know

Please dont get me wrong.

I'm not angry

but at least still in a Happy mode

Do the right things at the right time

Time flies. 2 more months to go.

Do the right things at the right time,

Holiday's here, as usual,

have not been spending my time well during this holiday.

Shall make use of this holiday instead of wasting the precious holiday time.

Do the right things at the right time,

shall make use of this July and work out.

Since I have didn't manage to go for the previous months

due to the school work

When will this come true from a watermelon stomach

It seems to very true when the more and more people

notice and tell you

the same things over and over again

When it happens, it means that it is true

no more denying

What I can do is instead prove them wrong and make that happen

which need lots of determination

but i believe

I can do it.

It will happen.

Do the right things and the right time.

Two of my friends from Monash,

namely Sook Ting and Shirley,

will be exchanging and transferring to

Australia Campus.

Another friend of my gang,

Jennie,

will also be going to Australia to study.

For those organizers out there,

You know how hectic is it to organize 1 single event.

We all knew.

But I shall challenge myself this time round

Organizing 2 events at the same time

1 for my Monash friends

another for my gangs.

See ya guys.

Company Trip

After a few weeks of tests and assignment,

we finally can have a short Sem break before the final exam

1 Week Holiday!

Just before my 1 Week Holiday

I went for a company trip organized by Monash Accounting Club

We visited 2 famous company

The first company is...

Just a brieft introduce about this company

It is one of the largest professional services firms in the world

and one of the Big Four auditors

along with Deloitte, Ernst & Young and PwC.

They are actually offering 3 lines of services

Audit, Tax and Advisory

Honestly

I am actually not aware that KPMG is one of the Big Four auditors

all I know is the Ernst & Young

However, after a 3 hours tour in the company

I start to realize what are the job scope for Auditors about

It is actually quite a hectic job

Of course, hard work paid off.

The 1st question I asked is

"How much will an Auditor earn per month approximately?"

For fresh degree graduates, it is around $2600

"So what's highest level income can an Parter earn in Auditors Firm earn?"

It is around 1 - 3 million per year.

"So how long could a person takes to reach that level"

It is depends on your capabilities and the amount of hard work had that you put in,

One of the youngest partner in KPMG is only 29 years old as he start at 19 years old.

And this is the fastest time for the time being for one to reached partner level.

The working environment at is very stressful

All you can see is stacks and stacks of file on top of the employee table

They looks really stressful

may be this explained why they are one of the Big Four Auditors

After visiting KPMG

We went over to visit the second company

BASF is one of the world leading chemical company

Malaysia's BASF is establishing a shared service centre

Stop there!

You guys must be wondering why is Chemical Company do with me

as I am a Accounting and Finance student.

However, every company needs accounting and finance department

however BASF Malaysia is a shared service centre

so called a main service centre

It provides support services in

financial and accounting, Information technology/information services and human resources

to BASF subsidiaries and affiliates in 15 countries in Asia Pacific.

Basically, the difference between BASF and KPMG is the working environment

I felt the BASF has a better working environment compared to KPMG

Their wall is very colorful and even their room name is unique

unlike other company

their room name is actually the country name

e.g. Korea, Japan, Australia, Kuala Lumpur and etc.

The interesting part about BASF is that they are actually having this program

That actually train fresh graduates for 2 years

and if after 2 years

he/she gets through the test or requirement

he/she can promote to become manager

It sounds "fast" and interesting

and you know is not that easy

but it is not impossible though

It is a good experience after the company trip

One important things that I forgot to mention about is

In order to work with them

one of the requirement is that your GPA has to be more than 3.2

3.2 is quite a high achievement as you has

consistently get Distinction for 3 years

which means for all the 24 units for Monash Business Students

you have to get at least a Distinction for every units.

Anyway, I personally think that GPA is really just a passport to interview

It only shows that you can study well, you are very hardworking

but if you just happen to throw a stone to the competitive world out there

everyone is at least a degree holder and some are double degrees

So, seriously,

How are you going to fight with them?

By participating co-coriculmum activities? Yes you can

By studying oversea? Yes you can, as you can get a greater exposure.

and there are more.

Do you think GPA is important?

Do you think participating CCA is essential?

Do you think studying oversea would make you a better chances then?

The Answer is a Yes.

BUT

Do you know why?

NEXT Entrepreneur Program

Woke up by a morning call at 8am this morning, get prepared as usual, and heading to Taylors College to facilitate an Entrepreneurship Program held by Money Tree again - NEXT.

So What's NEXT?

Next is a platform in which participants can learn about the stages and processes involved in getting a Company Listed on NEXT via a Simulation, "list their companies" & have other participants TRADE their stocks.

Reach there at 9am. Went to Room G02. After 10 mins of preparation, I saw Jolene, the founder of MOB. I was so happy to see her there actually, cause at least got someone can guide me through my 1st facilitating session. Few minutes later, her partner, SuZhen came too! It was really awesome to work with them.

After we set up everything, the person in-charge of the room was like asking us to shift room to Room B17, due to some internal issues. We were like okay, cool. Lets change then. Joy.

After we moved to Room B17, set up the registration table, video cam and arrange the table, we realized that the air-con is not working! which means, we have to change room again! Indeed, the person in-charge shift us to another room. Luckily this time is just shifting to the next door(:

Everyone came in one after another after registration, some comes in groups, some comes alone. It reminds me when I start joining the YES3 competition last year. Came into the room group by group...

The session was delayed due to the room problem, but it goes perfectly smooth after-all. Throughout the whole sessions, I actually learn some new things and unlearning the old things as well. This is what I find the most interesting part about learning. It sometimes refresh my memories, change my perceptions about the ideas towards Entrepreneurs in my mind.

Just wanna share 1 key to success here,

"When you start moving, don't stop, you just have to keep moving."

I don't think I need to explain or elaborate much about the sentence above. It tells from the sentences right? (:

Sometimes, a simple sentence like that can inspire me, can motivates me to move to a higher level, or may be, I am at the state of being.

There was a Business Stimulation game after our lunch. It was a very nice game actually, on top of that, I am in the same group with both Jolene and Su Zhen, how great isn't it? There are a total 8 groups. At the first 3 and 4th round, we were like losing and rank at last. But after the 7th round, our team is like doing extremely well and went all the way up to the 1st after the 1st session today! Good Job Jolene and Su Zhen! (: Looking forward to carry on NEXT week.

Alright, after a day session in Taylors, I shall go back to my studies already.

BECAUSE, I have 3 TESTs next week!!

Cool right? Good luck for me and my friends(:

Till then. Cheers.

美丽的误会

人与人相处，其实比什么都难。

要你真正了解对方，

不容易。

要你完全接受对方，

不可能。

人与人之间，你要如何去相处？

一句话，能让人无条件喜欢上你。

同样一句话，如果没表达清楚，

人家会因为此而讨厌你。

有些话，很难面对面解决，

但不面对面解决，

也很难打破隔膜，

不管隔膜有多么地薄，

始终也会变成一道墙。

误会就是这样地产生。

因为误会而导致隔膜，

其实都没有刻意想伤害对方的，

但往往会因此而造成之间的友谊渐渐的被损坏。

其实，做人少计较，多接受，

必定能带来不同的效果。

做人的道理，永远学不完。

Yes! March, The beginning of Year 2 Sem 1

Yes

If you know our gang well,

You will notice 1 person is missing from the photo taken above

which is our beloved friend,

CHA!

Wye Sern!

Yes

I miss him very much,

Although it sounds gay,

but I have to admit that without the presence of him,

is kinda boring= =

Anyway, hope he is doing well in Australia.

Sem 2 Started,

How amazing that I am taking 4 units of AFW!

which I am definitely not very good in it.

Have to work very very hard really

(but honesty I haven been doing a lot after 5 weeks)

Have to buck up!

One of the reason might be playing too much of this (:

Only you

Ikea's food is always nice(:

Behind every truth, there may be a hidden lie. And behind every lie, there may be a hidden truth.

Basketball

Yes! You are right! My new basketball! (: Molten GG7. As you know, I am a basketball freak, I love playing basketball, sometimes, I like to go to basketball court and just shooting alone. I used to do it when I was studying in Singapore, as the basketball court is just right below uncle house. I miss the time playing basketball with my Singapore friends too..

Have been waiting for the CNY to come. (: Visiting, Ang Pao, Gamble.. and etc. After the celebration, shall go back to Monash and continue my Year 2! (: Finally... After 3 and a half months of holiday, is enough(: shall go back to uni and start studying, gym, working and etc! not forgetting my new house in Austin too! I am hoping that everything will be done by the time I come back for Sem break. Hope to see my new room! yesh!

Alright! till there.. See ya (: thanks for reading.

Rainy Day

What a rainy day.

but it's good though

I don't need to paint my gate.

Joy

But I have to do it on other day.

Sadness.

Went to sing Karaoke @大嘴巴

with Soon Kiat and Ching.

It's nice!

Visted the new mall in J.B.

KSL.

conclusion made

it was a smaller version of City Square, and

a bigger version of Holiday Plaza.

so you should know what kind of places is there.

Luckily that I had shopped for my new year clothes in K.L.

else I would have been suffering here.

Till there then.

See ya.

Shopping mode

I'm officially 21 years old(: I was thinking to organize a birthday party, but in the end just had a small one. However, I am satisfied with it. Celebrate with Fion and Sensin in Fridays. It was not the perfect celebration, but it was a memorable one. Thanks.

Shopping mode started! It just 2 weeks in KL and i spent almost 2k. But I have gotten my new year shirts!! I love my Pull and bear shirts, although it left size XS. >.<>thanks to you(:

I got a new Nike bag too. I like it very much too (:

I have been spending alot. Shall not spend anymore. Waiting for CNY to come!